#930 נעמה אנסבכר - למה אנחנו באמת רבים? החוזה הבלתי כתוב שמפרק מערכות יחסים

בפרק זה של הפודקאסט "על המשמעות" עו"ד תמיר דורטל מארח את נעמה אנסבכר, יועצת זוגית ומרצה ומחברת הספר "לריב כמו מקצוענים", לשיחה על "החוזה הבלתי כתוב" שמנהל לנו את מערכות היחסים.
כולנו חווים כעסים ומריבות. בין אם זה עם בן או בת הזוג, עם הילדים, עם ההורים או אפילו עם אלוהים. אבל האם שאלתם את עצמכם פעם מה באמת מסתתר מתחת לאותה תחושת אכזבה צורבת? נעמה אנסבכר חושפת בפרק זה את אחד המנגנונים הפסיכולוגיים השמורים ביותר בנפש שלנו: קיומו של חוזה פנימי וסמוי, שאף אחד מעולם לא חתם עליו באופן רשמי, אך אנחנו עדיין מצפים שהצד השני יעמוד בו בכל מחיר, ואף מענישים אותו כאשר הוא מפר אותו.
במהלך השיחה, אנו מפרקים לגורמים את אותן ציפיות שקופות שמכשילות אותנו שוב ושוב בזוגיות ובחיים. אנו מנתחים לעומק את ששת המוקשים המרכזיים של החוזה הזוגי. מה קורה כשהציפייה שלנו היא בכלל לא מודעת? כיצד אנחנו נופלים בפח כשאנחנו מצפים שהצד השני פשוט "יבין לבד" מבלי שדיברנו על כך במפורש? ולמה לעיתים קרובות מדי אנחנו נאחזים בחוזים ישנים שכבר אינם רלוונטיים למציאות המשתנה, במיוחד בצל אירועי מלחמת חרבות ברזל והשפעתם הדרמטית על המשרתים במילואים ובנות זוגם?
האם טיפים על "תקשורת מקרבת" באמת מספיקים, או שאנחנו צריכים לעשות עבודה שורשית ועמוקה הרבה יותר עם עצמנו? איך קשורות הפרות החוזה הקטנות והמרגיזות של חיי היום-יום, כמו שטיפת כלים או הכנת קפה, למשברים עמוקים של חוסר הסכמה ערכית?
המאזינים לפרק זה יקבלו כלים מחשבתיים ומעשיים חדים לזיהוי ההפרות שמנהלות אותם מן הבטן. תלמדו כיצד לקחת אחריות אמיתית על הציפיות שלכם, ובמקום להאשים אוטומטית את הצד השני, תגלו איך להעביר כל רצון דרך ששת המבחנים שיבטיחו לכם זוגיות בריאה יותר. זהו פרק חובה לכל מי שרוצה להפסיק לסבול מאכזבות חוזרות ונשנות, וללמוד סוף סוף לריב ולפתור קונפליקטים מתוך אחריות.

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00:00:00 הצגת הספר "לריב כמו מקצוענים" והגדרת הבעיה הזוגית
00:01:51 העיקרון המארגן: מהו החוזה הבלתי כתוב?
00:05:40 רגש שלילי כסימן להפרת חוזה
00:08:14 חוזים מול עצמנו ומול הקדוש ברוך הוא
00:11:35 למה בזוגיות הכל מרגיש עוצמתי יותר?
00:15:00 השפעת המלחמה והמילואים על החוזה הזוגי
00:21:18 מוקש 1 ו-2: סעיף לא מודע וסעיף לא מדובר
00:25:07 מוקש 3: חוסר ספציפיות והצורך ב"מילון זוגי"
00:36:48 מוקש 4: סעיף לא מוסכם וסכנת הריצוי
00:43:25 מוקש 5: חוזה לא ריאלי וקשב וריכוז בזוגיות
00:52:05 מוקש 6: חוזה לא מעודכן – השתנינו מאז החתונה
01:01:00 איפה מונחת האחריות לתיקון המריבה?
01:06:50 ניתוח תפיסת "הפרטת הזוגיות" של מרב מיכאלי
01:13:30 האם מותר להגיד "אני לא רוצה" בנישואין?
01:17:40 סיכום: אומץ ופגיעות כחומר עבודה זוגי

#פודקאסט #על_המשמעות

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SPEAKER_01 0:00

Hello, Matakrambezman, Nikara, the Babakiman, Mukarga, Mitrichim, Le Hosbiadeno, Sephers Med Lat, Elem Kenatem, Lazuba Head Start, Nikra Riv Pomikanim, She Bokola Chot, Lorak Liga Bay Magorem Lanu, Lariv, or Litvak, or Zugan Ligot Lomashu, the Kriganaknu Pericaz, Sosafakrish Babakim couldn't make the Rata Baya, Maker Tov.

SPEAKER_00 1:25

Val Bainai, Anachulomekablim, Derekimale, Etai Corona Mergen, Shosanaula Vin Ma Kurepo, Vech Mikan Mit Kadmim. Velakhen Anachmanichimala Shulkhan, Ethai Corona Mergen, She Bainai Meratek Vuchol La Tlanut Muna Melea, Alcool Machot and Hasim Shanachum Kaimim Bachim Jelanu, La Davara Zekorim, A Jose, Abildi Katuve.

SPEAKER_01 2:04

Malegabim Bajose, Imukatuv, Mulokatuve, Okayas, Yes Jose, Vidgalakar Bamiloim, as It Galassiam, Mita, Varishav, Kola Mileth.

SPEAKER_00 2:39

The Beatem a Mahsan, a Me'od Meod Rahav, the Meod Amok, she'll call it, she will be. Leor Cola's Manaze Raita, Khavita, Avarta, Ithazavta, Samahta, Itragashta, Nifgata, Vikola de Varze, Kolmash Raita, Kolmashavita, Anishim Bhaim Shika, Hamodeli Mahaimshika, Yatsu Laatleat et Mahsaneze. Mas Kiral Hamashibano Bitrika Dem a Mwarch Mekuvat Lit Karevle Oneg Litrach Mikev. Vilachen Beto Colma, Zeh. At the time, she beta Khosehilcha yesh Asrot al Fay Sayfim. A safim lafim generim. Katusham Mashu Harbe Harbey Harbe Specifi. Aya Mashu, Shaya Moore Crot, Locke. Or Aya Moore Lollicrot, the Vacoir, the Inoukara. Anyum Lomish Patanita Vladisho Merchin Jose Uljose Midat Ulotakev. Okay, as po Lamazeno Amanian, Kimitan Had Loya Benuze, Atalo Samtal Hanit Colmasta Mzapemimini, Lobedate Rishon, Gamlobashnatisuimarishona. The Adain Atamitam Dilze. Kashia Nachnomithzivim Maadamashini, Vishuv the Lorak Besug, and Ahnut Nagim Keilu U Khatam. Shovashamati, the Loko Bezug, Zekorim Kola and Shimhaim Shulanu, the Kore Batzimut Gvoterim and Shim Shmoti Imlanu, Oriim Ladim Vihule, the Korea Filumulatmenu, Tarshavalezhuyom, Shalcha Zipiamatmecha, La Spik Dvarim Suyamim, Le Kabeltium Misuyamba Universita, Lagiale Segimisuyamim, Litnegbutura Kazoto Acheret La Dim, L Bisophayom, Atamursav. Lama, Kibotoyom, Efata, Laatzmecha, Eta Jose. Khosemitel Gam Benenu Levenetzmenu. Wolfnoshut, Nagitchelorak Benenuvenatmenu, Velorak Benenu Le Colmishisovotanu, Gam Makadosh Pochon, Ahmidnagim, Kieluyash Jose. Shuv Ahmed Nagim Kiilo, Anahnuyod ima olehikrot, and then we did, Musaq terminological, and Gam Khan Wayimut of the Gam Shelo, Vilifamim, Gam Marshavazotham, the Marno, Achosez Korea Bekolma Khotechasim, Gamat Menu, Gami Makadoshboku, Vebetah, Vebetah, Beto Zug. Ani ques comoshef Panukasti, Ani Pagua Kmoshaf Pamlo, Ani ani Metuskal, Anim Shagatuti, Kumoshaf Pamlo Aya, Lama, Magazine, Kumosh. Avalia Shmashum Bezug, She Tufesla Nuta etannefeshbezanecuda, Shanacholomirin de Tsmanuba, Anachnuyoter Mehakol, Achmustavimoter, Anachnua Vimoter, Nachmituskalimot, and Khamit Gage, Akol Yoter, Velama, Kimnuchosrim Shnialabasis, Hazugyut, Wandabad Kamwana Zug Mashmoutit Leo Shanim, Headavar Akikarov, Lemashavinu, K Mamashkiti no Kot Ktanim Mulafiluki Uberim. Bahiti imayada Sheanireva, Bahiti imayada Shez Bigalakisun with the L. Shalom Shane Shanakul, Ayom Yodim She Imalotomyodat, Aval Khawashal Tinock, the ima Vani Zechad. Hazugiut Misheret or Hushevich Misharetze. Vilachani mima yad a col Bleshan Yagid, Zegamashiko Bizugiute. The Jose, Shepitochon, a srotal face, animal ze, Sha Tzada Sheni U Qualka Amour Liot Karovelay, Shech Ech Imferali de Jose. Afilimanilo american, you merit the tmi, Hayavli, Sham Dwari Matrilimli Shaver, the Khazak.

SPEAKER_01 14:53

Shavkadesh and Vin Lovaniman, Ulaid Volume, Ulahutum Loyokim, Lagilanashim in Jose, Moramla Jose, the Laiboros Lemish Joseval and Islachem Tspiot Imlo the Shakfortam the Kablo Scama. The Gamblaskama, Y Holyotha Temlo Muslam, Banamila Muslam the Casico.

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Gam etashera, Ulailo, Achnouvlonikness, Aval Davka Bere Kazan Ahnul Lord Bamilhama, Kia Sipo Shel Jose Loi Tril Bamilhama, Vugamloi Gamerba, and Safek Sheit Sima it is a shever, it is sedic, a gav, lois carnage, Avalgamula Medina Farotrose. As my Vanu bent time, Evanushumarach, Shemarg etamuach, Vegoremlo, Les, Velemateg, Vletayeg, Cold Var, Shaata Osebazugiut, O Nimina Milasot, Bihavana, O Lobihavana, Ketov, Kira, or Kinetrali. Asita Mashu Lotov, O Niminata, Milasot Mashushiamo, Kibalta X, Kia Jose, Khattaf, Kaffa, Shilafara. Netrali, okay, Lonaga. Lif Amimot, Sena Kikitil Autobus, Autobusia. Okay, the Faratose Megad.

SPEAKER_02 18:11

Legal.

SPEAKER_00 18:11

Aval, Anachulo, Nish Burimena. Okay, Shavata Jose. Aval, Lonish Bart.

SPEAKER_01 18:40

A Jose, Shelchim Grosetra, who Jose Terda Cane Terre, Mesh Jose Banismin. Softeladim, Baza, Nanana.

SPEAKER_00 19:11

Nachon.

SPEAKER_01 19:12

Shumbedispatloit and Sadle Mahirka voa revosha Nachon.

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Nahon. Abel Beni swim the begirushim. Okay, Evanuselovad, in colour cave in colour several atalo cyavli herbeotermose. Beni swim, at the same time.

SPEAKER_01 19:37

Bonetropim, bon niakabedosavasafta in colla atovitaulam.

SPEAKER_00 19:52

Vilachen Kutzrimit Modimabea, Abayamunachatal Shulkan. Asma Evano Adku, Evanu Shia Jose, or Ecarona Mergen, Shelkol Zipiot, Vimimeila, Shelkola Zavot, Kepo Aliotse. Evanu Sharot, Peotot, Belichanimlo Metal Tilototano, Micholot Lyot Gama Farot Dramatot, Big Dali Dugma, Afarami Oodma Dramatit, The Mikholot Lyot Farrot, Aval Mittabrot. Afaramit, umnam k shelat, Afarai l'rammatit, you feel me. As Ivan, Ivanu Shekol Regili Shanichhova, Casel Bon Vir, and Beethum Manachno, Nazizreak, Mstirota, Mnegale, Afaratrose. Siyak Al Afarotrose, Zemashekor, Ainu Korumleza Afaratrose. Mikan Megiamascana ultimately, Mamal Kodot, Ma'amukshim, She Khosimbaem, Vechanachmith Modim Kolekhan Mamukshim. La Jose, Le Col Jose, yes, Shishan, Mukshim, Potentialim, Shem Pilimotanu, Paam, Achrepam Bleashanachamimlev. Bonimapeotam. Conflict, Mukesh Mis Pari Had Jose Lomuda, O Saif Lomuda, Zato Meret, Arbete, Veronaim Leodot, Nash Bizekotera, Anirzamashu, Aniodatianisku Kalamashuze, Avalanib, Loodat, Bidiukla Tzbia Mazi. Anik Asalecha, Ani Pagamimcha, Zeamiti, Ziemutz Dakmiprinati, Avalchani, Inaselagid Regamaka Asham, Shikulkach, Naga, Yalikashella Lidayek. Shami Meila, Imaniatmi, Loyodat. Bonavole Malcodic Mispan. Saif Lomedubar. Annie Yodat Mani Ruta or Yodibartize. Lama. Lama Shanashim Lloydabu et Mashem Razim. Call me Sibot. Sibashniash A ima nudniki tazo no merito? Lobali she da levad, sheavin, she fal, she active, sheosim, and Facebook, Areshel Askinim, and the mama, Shellet autenti, Shemishu Kutaba Mimuna, Anachnua Diarimi Kumatim Dira Sh, Anakumodim Literiah Bamimuna, and Vakshim Shatezminuta no Vakmuchanim Gamle Shelem. Yeshpoanishim Shirotzimashu Vim Vakshim. Bimcom Le Chevet Bakosh, Levad, Kumoshkinazim, Lagid Lomasminimoti, Frad Lomasminoti, Lama Fat Loshevali, Ani Bave Mani Rot. Rova and Shim Lom Rimaimotim. Becola Trumim. Atarot, Kama Manishim Shiroti Mala, Alhovnik Shula Boshim Mamush Motimala. Kama Anachnu Bechol at Trumim Bhaim Shelanu Mimnaim Berova Mikrim, Milagid Manachnozim, betak vetach, Kzeignanim, Rikshim, Kzenyanim, Intimim Shizenyanim, Shinugimbanuamok, Anachulomrim, Anachno Shvim, Anach Metuskalim, Shiloizminuta Nulamimuna, O Shelora Ushiko Evlanu, O Selohib Kutanukhainut. Aslama Anilome de Beret, Anilom the Beret ki colmine ki Avani de Beret, Lama Zemalkodet, Kimasi Kuh Shilcha, La Mod Bachose Sheli, Kshata Bihlalo Shamatalav, Ataloidya Makuvu. Zoafara she build in Betochomarit, the bag mouvne bitokhomaret. Okay, uh, wow, they had an a philotography. Avanti, baby, we have a lot of people. Ratita echom mashu, the safari pot, mash amouli corrot Bashanima Rio Nochani Swim, the Bihal Shizugiyukmashmautit, the Trilitzo Milon. Milon Yair Venair, Yossi Vehuhama Ruhama Yossi, Vehule Vehule, Hamilon Shamasbir, Maktuv, Kshiat Omeret, Tir Eoti. Maktuv et Lekak Shikatuv Nilimerhav. Makutushem. Makatuv aniloidat maz omer. As konukol za Kuran Grasha Rikshi Elimusag Mata Omer Ksha Omeret. Shabonelh Amigrasha Berbe Ter, Prakti, Techni, Yavesh, Amigrasha Shariomyum. Okay, Kshani Omeratlicha a Tabiras Akilimalecha Sababa, Sababa, In, Medubar, Nchon, Muskam, Akoltov, Ava Xani Kose, Akilimum Namaushtufim, Aval, Hajifa Bakior, Lonagatama. Loya Varda Smart with Misav, the Gamakilima emit, Lomunhim, Bazavit, Sheshla Msikui Kol Shulitya Bish. Okay, Miprinati, Efarta Hav Jose. Velama, Kiboroshili, Bishol Kola Damachair, Mitahat Limishpat Mesuyam, Yeshima. Loamalitama, Kiloyadale. Okay, Odugma Mitit Makhaim, Sipardi, Tapama Lishiva, Sipo Khadash, Sipo Khoser, Lifekama Shani Mikashti Miair Shani Hoshev, Mudalizeshwadamod, intelligent vihakam, the data, mehayay, amartilo, ta setov, ta vibgadima. Yomch, animegala, shambgadim beodamre to vim vani mistaketalavmer Amart La Virb Gadima Michonalamyabesh Bzeo. Libosh, Hamishpat, La Virb Gadima Michonala meabesh, shavil, Kherat Mamahutapeula.

SPEAKER_01 30:50

Bishwilmaco la session as the case. Hosimat no specific. And you let me Tamir tahil shove cafe. Tamir Ma Ma Ma Tik Sucrez me, I'll be taken like a lock to vote, and shum he shakha, me, load it decami many.

SPEAKER_00 31:51

Okay, as the makpizatanu la fara, la moque, she love, a valifnezaniagid, herbe ter she put him, alatana shinimia let's menu. No, Anachmu Tershiputim, Vanigamagid, She Anachnu Vizidi Barno alze and Lozohbehada Mujashim Shellanu Ala Par Shanut, Shanachunutnim Leotapeula. Ker is a heart a pamachate asukazito asukar, nicha, avalim shartim, khamishim, po and such as my crepo, and sellam kizetov kido, yegid e ops, shinya pusmistrak, lama u suk lama, shamoak if albofun razionali, shizekolasman machata me villa shulhan, boi ti rationali the kidvari, gid ah unora mous. Ah, unora tarud, ah, ulai bihalish vericuz. Shizagam sessha na holom debrinola vezug, vukore, hamon, ki surprise, surprise, yemista vericu, zelonic marbetaud bit. Kemelveotra, leori khaim, zishgomlecha lishquachtayel shavki varvale arbava mart, anirak suge, mash katan veotse, ve inikva arbavisha, the goremlichalishquak mashuba super, the goremlicha odveodverim. Asihhoyo, chamochegid, voila, psada, ma matju fetachu noramus, ohegid Anilomaspikrashuvalo. Imoya, tibemit, Uloya shuk, as nahon pa mahat, pa maim, shaloch ramesh uair, psed orbenedam, a valimushhaim Azulai Ulaani spevalem to in Ba de book tara, Yadati the Meroch.

SPEAKER_01 33:57

Vanydalat'mi callam hotelimishti Yadati the Meroche. And lotta is very specific.

SPEAKER_00 34:08

Lo, shouvla, lololo.

SPEAKER_01 34:25

Uh Bushav proactivity telephone the commune, Anashim, I'gunim, leva, a little bit, let's shabat. Come on, call it a dati is the roche. Okay. Here that Meroche Shani Shonamena.

SPEAKER_00 35:14

Villichonaza Molistan.

SPEAKER_01 35:16

Look, she's a Meroche, and Local Havid Droshman, the Noche Lumber.

SPEAKER_00 36:27

Magam, Shekhelek Matipiochilanu, Anachulainu Erimelem, Ace Mitoru, Ledugma, Akurona, Ikhnisa Le Khayenu, Musak Shimolam Lopagashnu. Aim Ath. Hamus Pitom, Amarich Dichnisa, Shagav Zhazar Hakashov Pambe, Shagata Ari Kamuvan, Aim Atahyuni, Aim Anihunit. Okay, Amikto Helanu Khyuni. Zemusag mi amiktohil mi yoter khashuv, ze lo ayamba deitim shelhem, kiloalhimsibah shovelze. Hamitsyutma, ayla dim shemegim, ali mudim shelanu, shinuya voda shelanu, apituri himshelanu, meshani amitsiut, om tzafim, seifim sheloita erlaim. Shavani bihavanamasger tsihashtanu vunagiale zeba mokesha shishi, valbintaimalanu, seifim lomudaim, seifim lomedubarim, seifim lo specifim. Okay? Bonavor la mukesh Arivi Shelanu, Vukore, Hamon, Saif lomuskam. Aubemeot Pemim, Anim. Bahroket Afilo lifne. Anisama la Shuhan Mashua Nosimla Rim Shil Shabat. Aim Badakti, Shizamatimlicha, Aimatzarti Shnial Varer, Aimat Sababa, Anifilo Shadizhela, Anilomarti Gid Tamir, Balacha Shani Sala Rim Shabat Kilino Raba. Shomea Nosimla Orim Shileshabat. As Matavishon, Anibikalobodeketaskama. Matav Shinish Litrahesh, Atalomaskim Avalot Sardialze. Lolatati must speak to Matlev, Vecovod, Lauvda, she atalomaskim. Matav Shlishi, a Mardi Ken, Avalbeetem, Ratitilanglo. Herbeamim, Anakno Maskimim Lemashu, Shekol Yom Colminette Verimke. Kulanu Simed, Kulano Murim Lassotze. Ayalme Sipou, Kama Veosa. Okay, Avlifamim ha as Kamacia Nugad with Verimar Beotermautima Vuenu, Lorotinulagitken, Vine Amarno. Lama, Colmine Sibot, Ulaikashovli Latzotzadashini. Ulaani Mifedit Mima Koseras Kamazia Sebenu. Ulaani Lorotalariv Mula Dim. Ulaani kwa kolka, se mashtarotze. Elikwahleze. Anakmumrim ken Mikol Minei Sibot Vikot Shipoalimetreno Avalatiti Lagillo. The Imaniamartiken, the Ot Pama Martiken, the Otpama Martiken, Xiratilagillo, Mataisu, Haloze, Yhsofet Panav. Mataisu Ziyaleme Alpne Shitah. Habeme andoflimsham. Shabon de Bergal Masha Taileta Anilomaskim. Animat Lomaskim. Okayun alima kakat leiladimul. Okay Anilomaskima. Atomer Lolo Anise Mashovle Mirolamiro. Kseshbe met Hoseraskama Atsu Vetiveku Makorishambe. Becauseher Bemeot Bemim, Koseraskama, Yushev Al Paar Ben Arachim, Ben Ma Arochotarahim, O Bent Fisot, She Ulayba Var Akazdibaem Ulayanik Varlo Khazidbay Mayoma Velosam Tilev Bashut Ratitam Kadima. Reculanu Bnuim Mi Marache Akhlatot Shibaninu Leor Hirshanim Ovishernhon Nivnugambetochenu Leo Hirshanim Marainu Babait Mashamanu Marainu Bekolmine Modelim Shepagashnu Leori Haderich. Beberiklal the Talihim Lamudaim. La sinu marithinun zekenzelo. Lo rak eltohazugiud oferli Lo Mamashovishan Adimiram, Mata Mivilashulhan, Tame Vizashu Erech, Atame Vizashit Fisa, The Kshanimit Neganitleze, Mamim Villa Shukan Kama Meazugot, Minalim de Dionze. Okay, Meule. Rovazugot Mito Trigger, Velom Makore Bithochmarichim Shiminian et Velhang Shahmid Saif Lom Muskam, Tifdeco Makuraba Lomus Kamze, Aimzelom Muskam Shapu, Aimzelom Muskam, Shiaabo Ritzui, Bimcomas Kamamidat, Ma Karasham Bitokohmer Have Zhibo, Atavani Lomuskim. Rovaolam Medelamukeshazi, Vaz Muftale Galot, Mashlach Hochello. Lama Kianilo Berati, Kianilo Badakti, Kianilo Azardishnia, Listakelecha Bayanaim, Velishol, Zematimcha, Zetovlecha, Mshachtiala, Vekiran Shigamata Vegamani Loniswimtreim, Anachnudim, Shashrika, Vemiro Zahim, Vatiruf, Vaom Sim, Gonalaro Mod Maher, Vanach, Lot Srim V Dok, Shadashini Barecha Vitanu, and Duharim Kadima, Lefima Hotarhim Shellano, Lefia Gilim Shellan, Lefima Shabalanutov, Lobalanutov, Shabakiselia Denu, Loyoshev Africad. Anizo Cinitcat Imamirut Anizo Chenitkat imachzava, Anizochinitkatima Kiasim Shioti Machutza. Imanilomanalikabele Oteze, Kol Pa Mekadash, Ani Atzapemeno, Ledwarim Shehulo, Mesugal Lalnik, Baformat Shebuani Mizapa. Maza format Nagid Imani Sapa, Shehuizkor, Levad, Tamid, Sheberevale Arba, Uyutela Softayalda. Bloner, Blitzkorot, Bushitzko, Zotzipialo Realit. Bonakhzorigalamilchama Kshanimit Zapah, Imani Hshav Betoh Imani Zug Milw. Hu Nimza Bemakom Achokiraiti Mamasha Bokeraiti Postel Shikotev Taki Anilom Sugalatlachit Masha Anilo Messugal Anio Evotar Aniloy Hol Zehlo Reali Vekolsman Shaniam Shiklach Zikoto Veshti Elf C Bot Mutz the Kotlach Zikoto Ataiv Tartali Zemashata Zemashadi Barno Normali A Shovato Nelimikan.

SPEAKER_01 46:53

A coolamusim is a microfizer.

SPEAKER_00 47:01

Zechab Zenchon itso de Shimashikabeneem the Shima Mshikalarhzik, Tipiot, Ohu Lam Shane Huhi, Mam Shikim Lachzik Tipiot, Shiloh Mia Shot Kav Imamit. Lifamim Atadeshini Lomusugal Karegalat. Aita amur le Zemakato. Oh Aita Amur lo le. Bonane rakala mishpateze.

SPEAKER_01 49:14

No bonafikola Jose, the Bonathil, Leavinch, Basovia, Shebra, Vimilo Tukshera, Vimilo Specific.

SPEAKER_00 50:59

Afarot Rose, Hemadova, Shemyatzrimit, Shemyatzeretzlen, Et Amerirut, Vetatiskool, Vitakas, Vetahzava, Sheitkulam, Anakutulim, Beadamikad. Hu He Zetzlam Imrak Hu Ayamvin Shez Imrakas Az Villachen, Zukelliopniktuan, Adavari Shonchuse, Azov Zug, Adam, Shirozeliopniktuan, Vaholot Gamadam Hatchem Shadakesh. Ma'am Shekh Shela Mishpat Haba. Hu Aya Amur leima Bergishpath lo maseket Mishpat. Azhlecha, Etsaf, Shmone, Gimel, Katan, Beturachose Shekha. Bonira Makatuv Veaz Betehf Nagid Makura Mukshim Shelanu niremosimitam. Aval, Los Yanu Takaron Shelanu, Ayalanu, Lomuda, Lomedubar, Lomuskam, Lo Specifi, Loreali. Nishanu ima Charon Bator, Vehu, Lo Meutkan. Kimako, Ycholiot, Nagid, Bematav Optimali, Shihwala, Team Lutzipiot, Advarima Yuburim, Emayomu Nachimala Shulhan, Bsena Nikit Nikali Zedate Shil Kharidim, Seder Kilu, Sagar No Shikha Shulhan Sha Bachalano Irael Khan, Ve Lihora Akol B Seder. Okay, Yofi, Avalish, Katanchik Shishno, Kurimlo, Achaim Kiaimatam, And Bezuza. Mizah Eraclites, and Zazim, Akol Zaz, Okay, Khaj Sagarnoze, Diministam, Rega Vilpitom Nastinoklama Reket, Ametsi Udzaza, Rega, Aurim Shil Yashami Vugarim Vanitra Terla Azorsham, Rega, Ametsi Udzaza, Putati Me Avuda, Ethalti Avuda Khadasha, Ethalti Tua Shini, Hayel Chatino Kupito Mid Bagir, Ama Babait Otto Pamishhtana, Hamatzava Kal Kalish Anwistana, Hamatzava Datishil Anwishtena, Yocholochi Tratanu Kishneno, Lotar Khainian Shaykhim Loto Migzar, Vele Ota Migzarim Relevanti, Vzesta Dalanu, Avalani Varti Shinui, Ulait Khazakti, Ulani Loveta Musagim andeko Haval Zazdi Shambeto Lama Datil Khatishili. Vershavma Rovaolam, Mrzik, Khazak, Bekanota Mizbeh, Shel Khusim, Hakudmim, Vuhulom Khanleakir, Shankhuzimele, Lobetoker, Hamitziut Zaze, Veshuvinhzola Milhama, Amitsuut Lorak Shem Mishpahotamiluimavl, Betakam Mishpahotam, Vem Shpahota Khatufimve, The Majjan Del Kulanu, Betak Vetah Basvavimulan, Amitiud Zaza, The Shelahiman Khmuchanim Lakirbese, O Shanachum Tkuimanu, Bachose Mipam. Verkend, Saif Lomutkan, Yeshkan, Afara, Shinoldamize, Shaani Lomekira Beze, Shigamata, Vegamani, Lohan Shim Shainu Shitanu, Matodema, Tovshik. Zaznu, Itpatachnu, Zamachnu, Zuccher Bam Shavadibano, and Zhere la Lobsterim, Zucchhar al Maschalazh, a Lobster Zaklashilta Klipach Lobashugadel, Aimasinode, Aima Nachnubonim, Klipach Dasha, Shimutemet La Khaim Shilanu Ayom, Veshov Thzalam Shpachotamiloem Shelanu. Hu Lotoger Shuya B October Sremosh. As she silo October, Vashvila Oktober, Zekwarim Khirim. Khimi Az Hizaz, Karul Advarim, Ine Ilzah, Litzmua Vila Sodvarim, Irat Advarim, Ishama Advarim, Ibahtaba Miklahat Levad Kideshailadim lo Ishmeu, Vehu Ra'a, Avar, Shama, Khava. Kol od Anitzape, Shagavhili, Oi Shasheli, Ihr Zehuli Yotmashemayu Bashishilo Oktober Srimosh, Anikhaya Bihose Lomutkan. Kol od Animit Sapa, Shiti tihesela i kmoji tih salifneshati no karishonjilana uniknaslihayenu anihai bichose l'omeutkan. Kol odimitsa, ithatanti misternik, shira sali.

SPEAKER_01 56:36

Okay, but shall we have to be a very good thing?

SPEAKER_00 58:03

As licora, maditzot, more tactili Lamatomerlo, Kimata Metzapemishtikalavin. Okay, Akolaya Shulkan. Aimy Lomomash Kulano Khaimbeze, Kulano Avarnushin the team, at Zorok the team, Azov Bonadir, Bonadekal basic. Ayalifnikama Shanim Zug, Zugikau, Shavu Sum Sh Vaishnam. Shav Bonagic tact Loya and Kudakaza Kabiote Shelagh. Tir e Bematzubialia Kmochini Rata Az. Shamaze Az, Kshaiti Batasan Verba, Aitifne Kamesh Ledot, Shav Azov Jose Takt Mishaver, Maubara, but often she boy in Fizita Hashav Yefera Jose. Anitante Michael X, Ashav kibalti Y. Afarote Jose, Shakshua Mispan Shish, Le Jose Lomwitkan, and Kurot Cole Zman, the Baruch Hashem Shem Khorot. Wataroe, Etev Shigamata, Vegaman ni Lomchanim Lazorakora, La Joseim Sheil Pam Pam Kitzamachnu. Velchen Anachno at Quimpo, kihu evtiach veine umifer. The Panachunasim Nekuda Hashuva Bioter, Acheshami Pinu Echesheta Mukshim, Bishhuvani Bhavana Jose Dalimpa Macham Kedesh Emita Mu Beto Homarehet, Jose Lo Muda, Lomedubar, Los Specifi, Lomuskam, Lore Ali, Veh, Sagarno Harshav et Alomutkan. Shavma Mikwise Megalelano. Shinedvarim akutim bioter. Ehad etelmimunakatayute meriva, meabetin, mimi prinatrashem. Lolo, mereva, lo shia, meriva. Miashem, if necessity barno Jose, I'll load a la Jose.

SPEAKER_01 1:01:06

No, that is an issue.

SPEAKER_00 1:01:14

Mimi Hashem.

SPEAKER_01 1:01:20

Adam Savir Shini.

SPEAKER_00 1:01:30

As Adam Savir is a good one.

unknown 1:01:34

Okay.

SPEAKER_00 1:02:32

Ksanium Tzliomit Kavanit Anya Shima. Okay, Vershabonase, Vidui, Khatati Yavid Pashati. Zeloze. Mikhal Musangashma Benayum Musangomeka De Michal. Anijutera Sukabe Akhrajut. Adhshav Khashafdi Shizlo. Oetzlah. He who Lom Dimli Bachose. And Khatmu so called Lom Dimli Bachose. Ma At Munacha Khoshan Aknuzianu Poyom Akrayut Kodimkol Munachatzli. At R Samashu rega tivdeki, Imaratzonchelak, Avar, et Sheshit Amivhanim. Zatomerit Imamikonim, Atabemeriva, Tezakek Mishpatihad, he Aita Amoa Le. Meule, Ashavk Kabloitakli Apraktibiot, Khruita Mishpateze, Vita Virooto, et Cheshit Amiphanim.

SPEAKER_01 1:03:32

Regazemuda, Kita Marthaita Mura lephone, lelmasik, le vakesha lacno minus.

SPEAKER_00 1:03:40

Meule, Aimza Avarat mifrana muda. Okay? Okay. Aimza avarat mifran Hadubao. Aim a marta lighta.

SPEAKER_01 1:03:53

Lonaj.

SPEAKER_00 1:03:54

Okay, askonekol nafalta behmifrangadol. Lata nafta Farashanafa. Mimela, Barulich Nafalta Mimfran Specifut Kin Lodi Bardaze and Sikoija Specifi. Minas Tam, Nafalta Gamemifran Muskam, Kimash Lodi Barda Lav, Hilo Hwaskim. Aimze Reali, Poza Shella Manianit, Ula Ken, Ulailo, Lloydat, Shela, V Aimzeme Uutkan, Zotomataimzimkir, Bemishehi Hayum, Vib Marachay Hasim Benechem Hayum, The Zematim Makavana Marachai Hasim, Nagian Hm Shav Zugarush, Aimani Holzapod, Shad Kashama Sik Shabamolo Ulala Mamma Arachay Khasimbeno, Lorakimana Kunisuim Gushimila, Aimbichlal Masha Nimitza Parshav Mutam La Makom Shanachun. Yof Yaqla Shaniroza, ma ze lomut mutkan biyachas la metsiu chakimbayom. Azimlev, shacipia a super psychutašhikha, nafla b'benar ba'a le khamisha sejfim itohisha. The efoshizin nafal sham korya tikun, zemah shemanyin bashita azot. Zem lachen bhardi la simota pwa la shulkhan ki belgasta mizakekta mishpat, ma a vero to i chisha tam ifhanim, bodek efozin nafal xham nimza tikun, kim loa marti inaniagid, mzelo reali bonifhan lama, ulayan y shanekan mashu, lazikani reali, imani slaqat na mispajasu khanbituwah, i mani yhtovla ezeba whatsap, maya foch ezzel reali. Efo sha bag sham nimza atikun. Aimzeftorl khme khusa konflictim lo becausear shimitnageshma wutit ter kit be ma shaani wzah. Nahon lo confli patrukacha, aval akhuzim builtin itfasim ipatrukaha, a shuv mashemanyenpo, theikaroni udim od mukar, ayut munachat etli. Aoshir, shizimilagdula, a sipuk, a simcha, ba marikati hasimazot, i munakat alai lokaron yefesha mekrava mekadesh bahupa omeroto, shha madricha tanimchika, marli chaoto ba az azitante lo. Zikaron yom yomi. Loma comazhel anikautal khaim shligam, aval manomerat macho fino beoter prakti khoita machikat.

SPEAKER_01 1:06:54

The when Taverbe codem, if neck called the Has to Bethem Husha, She Hagi Ula, Hishavin Swin. Shell Adashav and it sarcastify Shabat, and Tadogale, the Piton Shavesli, a killumishukavua, Shentamidobatot, and ito, Balibum Shhenik Tatlitovre, man, the Holy Tether the Kevin, the Votsa Havov, Levare Bhaverov, Haverov, the Colomb, and Yeslita Peteron, Le Col Davar, Levad, the Midi Mil Debergast, I had a Khavershito Matica. The Bedish Mokomita and Shimle Tafkidimus, Philbani Swin, Shegam and Swin loyally Tobanadam.

SPEAKER_00 1:10:59

She omeretu Kilo Kolechadikarpo Mnetah. Anikoshevich Achuva Bevadai Lomuna Khadet Mirav, Anikhoshev Shihi, Meshaberet, Etamusad, Loba Muvana Mim Sadishelo, Eme Shaberet eta Kwah, Abiltinit Fas, she each lleniswim Lo et Kwah et Sim a Biltinit Fashadavaraze, Kshuan univnanachon vemiton, ilokah imaakeret be naitakwahxelo, the chuwabunakat beinay itzla. Kikola colo akdibarnula symbiotizolo dani itaka betwalom muda, baratzonazymbiotiot, anni mtatatmi, metuskelet, veme umleet, mimurmeret, vetlet kolze, batzadashini. Eforchuva munachat batfisa shelly. Bebaday shatasheni, loyholotliakol. Aval, achuvaloti belafrit, elaitiye, bonifhan, dvarim perzipia. Yacholiot, shelly, uhzuceli cheviti, le sahnashim, el toholila, adazriha, vechhaim, veholochete, hulloya holotetli. Okay, Azanimta Havera said. Mara, you're not going to be a good one.

SPEAKER_01 1:12:29

Kilofakos Bamekara Valle to Fatah Verrot, Kilo, Adaniswin, and Alamale Haverot, Pito Mazan Swin, Enla Havera Hat. She Mirama telephone, she's sporty tâch, she'll be clumilo.

SPEAKER_00 1:12:56

Loki, the don't shaniotermit, a Michkal Allecha Rakolech Venesa Kavedioter. Ella Anachnu Ezelosim, Banachnu Gamom Valim Biach, because Lomatzanu Shunavanchutafno, as an eat same, that's it same khavrim shak, Lomatzanu, Olamot Tochen Meshutofim as Azov, Bolon de Ber, Kilo, Bshima, and Yosef Mamma Vizeker. And Bogam Loninael Takesf Biachat ki Stop Samsubah, Kiluela Thajbon Chihat, Khiban Chili, Netaem Kamakolhat Samba Kupet, Khaval. Kihol, Shadavar Zemitrachev Betohaniswim, and Abdimit Kukam. Velchen, a Gvul Ugvol Adin, Shemistane Lorak Benzuglezug, Ugomishhtane Bitochazug. Yes Tkufot Shebaem ha anachnu, kilasotokolbiakad, velot biyach, yatimlioter, yesugot, yes t kufotem anithat individualism shili, shiacholitbate be yoter merechavishi, belatim khavirochillioter, belishmoral misha nirotaliot. Enpo tkun la davase. Aval, shuv nahunaimal rezef, and la chulorotzim fantasiot, kiem emsa sototanu, lachholozimit lichaoti pagamerav Micheli, ahlotimit Mirav Michaeli batwisa Shivia ki hilo kak essen eta mahut sheldawarase vemeforeretoto. Aval, bataveh, bonifhan, mama zipiocelli emrealiot. Ve Efoshelo, Efanim Shereet. Efanilo Melit Lagid, Ratziti, Kiviti, Banitialze, Veulochol Uloroze, Bonasim Gamarashuhamachu Bahotkefi. Girhol Zetirkal, Lorotze, Ulo Rotze. Okay. Echanimit. Holoca Pogesh Mimakomach. The anichoshevachani swim zuhim laf Shirgamatom Shiboni or Merit, Anilorotzabze. Ve az Mod. Bait moledutilomilashli lit. Echa tamit moded im Zeshani Lorot. Makureshim, Echanimit moderit in Zesha Tamit Moded, Makoreba Mirhava Zeshibon Achnorotzimdvarim Shonim. Velakhen, Hashovli Lasimal Shukan Mashesamlugvarapamakodemit, Lokol Merivano Adali Pater. Yeshmeripato, Yesh Dvarim Shanachunam shik Lola skim ligabem. Vela shelatye, aimanach nudim, lezawot ma kore sham, aim badak numaushev be besisho seraskama. Aim sinua voda albesisho seraskama, clumaro, lefamim anilomskima, kitragalti leemdamesuyemit. Afilulobadaktiota, Itragaltiele, Anishoch Sheir Vanitratano ani Ad Gilbunasra Meolamlo Aiti Bemalon. Aurim Janim Ode Mino, Chaim Pashut, Olchim Le Anna, Bamikiratov le Hasaniatano, Mitoht Fisa, Mamash Erikit, the Chitani Glitch de Vakashko no Malon, Mitahad Noaneze, Mitacheni Lo Lokhaim Shovkol O Dimshahtilhzikze, Lo Samtilev, Lola Samtilev, Losha Aldid's me, Imanimam Shika Lahzik butfisazot kinima minaba o kitragaltile. As Kshanachnusim niul conflict amiti, and kutzakhim dok aiman khom shikim lechhoz be tfisa, she be met shelano, o shadain husuhvimalagavmashikwa loshahlano, shahla mshelanu, shachlekovim, shachlzipiyotrevatiot, avalugvaloko shelanu, Vikshanachum naallimze, bemuchanim nasimala shu khan, et varim amiti himshikoribnenenu, et marchotarhim, etakevim, ethoseras kamut, etapgiut, et takafto ri mshelanu az anaknuravim kmomikzoanim. Bekola tipi makanimele, khashuvim, al tik shore, dwalehomrim bikore, dve akol nachon avalnikudati. Zelo notelanu etatmuna, mashayom asinu, zekmosha mardi bathala, lea niklanu, atzeta, mashmautit, la rajonu me argen shekurimlo, a chose abildi katuv, shibo anakhuitmaqadnu ayombezugiuta veluma se korelekulanu, kolyom, imar bema shimbaim shelanu, vleatlih, le makemet tzmenu, ala rayoneze, makorelanu, ezem nafalnu, ech echmetaknimetuta mokshim, ve echmina alimsiach, shisama la shulhanit vrim, samala sulkhanet mishaanachnu ayom, l'ot mishainu, misha nachnuayom, the misha nachnuzim liyot batid, vim zeuvdim, zechhomeravuda, la fantasia, lo mishainu amurimliot, lo of the hochil pam, shikulamitiot, anachnuvdim, e misha anachnu ayom, zedoresh omits, zedoresh reyamfukachat, theuresh muhanutlibgiut, a vel sham, atimtigalu, et advarima mitim.

SPEAKER_01 1:19:04

Timitabitofase, emutel or Bazem, atkarab head start, sepon Icare, la reputa nim, pochlihatatot bayad, theze be head start, him tacchon taberek, we shall love it more, Vecum vangam Lircosh, Otak Mshilachem.

SPEAKER_00 1:19:22

Ven Yosef, Otak L Mishpachat Miloim, a project as in oad la zo beneshangamishpachot milem, the musmanim, anismachme or tihashu, gamavohem, vegam la zo, la nashim shelano, shambich vilano.

SPEAKER_01 1:19:36

Doraba, namanforcha.